Sending your man away unconsciously?

A woman loves to be in a relationship. In fact, many women define their self-esteem by the quality of their relationships.

If her relationship is good, everything about her feels good. A woman will, therefore, consciously work on her relationship to keep it, but sadly, sometimes she unconsciously pushes away what she loves to keep.

Some 10 years ago, a wealthy man had a fight with his wife in their bedroom.

How do you send your man away unconsciously

Not respecting him: Respect is the most important need of a man because it encourages him to grow, mature and be himself. It makes him a stronger partner, protector and provider.

If you do not respect your man, you make him a living dead person and drive him away without knowing.

Not submitting to him: Submitting is the yielding obedience to your man and ultimately to your Maker, who instituted marriage and made your man the ordained leader.

Submission involves your attitude and your actions. If you do not submit to your man, you question his leadership and competence to lead your relationship. You compete with him, and he questions his self-worth. He avoids you to protect his ego.

Not trusting him: Deep inside, your man desires to be trusted. Trust encourages your man to share all areas of his life, including his fears and failures, with you.

You attack your man’s masculinity and boast of your achievements. You take pride in intimidation, aggression and power.

You belittle your man in front of others. If you go behind him and do things just to show you can do better, you are telling him he does not measure up to you.

He responds by pulling away from you.

You hold him responsible for your happiness: You repeatedly remind him of his responsibilities, even when he believes he is doing his best.

You assume your man owes you happiness, yet in reality, no one can make another person happy. You exert undue pressure on him and may not know what to do.

You fail to appreciate his efforts and constantly complain about what you lack and what other women possess.

He may feel like a failure and stop attempting to meet your needs. As a result, he might avoid you by working longer hours or leaving the relationship.

Not meeting his emotional needs: A man’s most important emotional needs include sex, an attractive wife, and good domestic care.

If you do not show interest in sex, neglect your appearance, have unkempt hair, make no effort to manage your weight, do not cook well, and do not keep your home tidy, you may cause your man to feel depressed and he might leave you.

Are you sending your man away unconsciously? Your man may appear big and strong, but deep inside he could be very fragile, held together by a thin thread.

His ego, self-confidence, and sense of worth are connected to you, and any seemingly insignificant word or action might be all it takes to drive him away without you realising.

Understand your man. Be entirely devoted to him. Trust him and be his cheerleader.

If you love your man deeply from your heart and stay true to your words, he will always grow closer to you and never abandon or forsake you.

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